TESH: Can You Really Fall in Love Online?

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Can you fall in love online, even if you’ve never met? According to the book Affairs Of The Net, not only is it possible – it happens all the time! In fact, many studies show that people do form “deeper connections” when they meet online, even if they never meet face to face. For example: One study found that people who met online tend to communicate more openly and honestly, compared to people who met face-to-face. Why would that happen? Researchers say it boils down to the fact that when we take away the stress of being face-to-face and can really think about our interactions, it’s easier to get deeper with each other. That’s why a growing number of couples now report moving more quickly from a casual online chat, to something much more emotional and falling in love online – even before they meet in person! But…beware of an online hoax, or love scam! Dr. Michael Adamse is a psychologist who wrote a book about online relationships, called Affairs Of The Net. He says the trick is to be smart about your feelings before they get too deep. The moment you feel like you’re starting to fall in love with someone online, then it’s important to meet them in real life. And if they hesitate to meet you for even a second, consider that a huge red flag. Dr. Adamse says the problem with waiting is that the longer you wait to meet in real life, the more likely you are to start idealizing the person. You could end up forming an impression about them that’s based more on fantasy than reality. So, by the time you finally do meet, you’re more likely to feel let down because no one can live up to the fantasy in your head. In other words: It’s normal to fall in love with someone you meet online. But never think you’re in a “real” relationship until you’re actually face-to-face with that person, spending time with them. Sharing this heart healthy intel from The John Tesh Radio Show may find you being a voice of reason to a treasured friend at just the right time!